Tuesday, December 16, 2008

How you know that u are in love?

Today i have a lot of entry in this blog... maybe just do not know where to express my feeling...so this is the channel for me...hehe...such a total freak...i'm rather telling my stories here compare to other people that i didn't know very well....i think this wouldn't happen if hawa is around...hehe..my counselor...haha..

Here is my topic...how you know that u are in love?

It's an interesting topic to be explore right...hahah..suddenly i've just flash back all my love stories in my mind...

  1. When u feel different feeling when u meet that guy or women. This feeling is unexplainable...u have that weird and fast heart beat i guess...hehe...i have that before...hehe...just do not know how to control it when it happen...hahaha
  2. When u attracted with him/her not only because of his/her looks...but also his/her personality too.
  3. When u feel like loosing something when u cannot see him/her. Seeing his/her face even a glace is just enough. This is because u will miss that face when it's not there.
  4. When u miss that someone a lot while apart. Means when you cannot see each other u will miss him/her....one day feel like 100 days..haha...
  5. When u feel happy when he/she is around u...the love make each other happy and shining all the glow from yourself.
  6. When you have the joy and the laugh together.
  7. When you have the tears and the sadness together too.
  8. When you can share all your problems...your thought...your interest....your feeling and every part or your life with him/her.
  9. When you feel comfortable talking and discussing about all topics.
  10. When you trust him/her without no doubt.
  11. When you feel the pain when that someone is in pain or sick. You just couldn't bare to see your love one suffering from any pain or sickness. You just want to be beside him/her when this happen, to make sure he/she recover faster.
  12. When you know his/her mood from the looks that he/she have on the face and know how to cheer him/her up.
  13. When you actually do not know what to talk about....but just love to talk with him/her. This speechless is one of the most romantic thing ever.Cause the silent actually showing that the love is too much until u just do not know how to describe it...haha..i've been through this before...looking at each other face and just enjoy the moment together without saying anything...
  14. When it's too hard to tell him/her that actually u really love him/her so much. That's the true love ever....cause saying i love u is just a meaningful statement that need to be reserve to someone that really special for u...if u simply said it to everybody, then the value of saying it to the one that u really love is just nothing cause it's all the same with others.
  15. When u keep on chasing him/her even you have so many hurdles to go through. Trying the best to attract him/her. You just don't bother what others are saying...u keep on doing what u think is good for u.
  16. When you will do anything to just see him/her smiling and happy all the time.
  17. When you can give and take for evey condition.
  18. When you can tolerate with many condition.
  19. When you can accept all the goods and the bad things in himself/herself.Accepting he/she as what they are.
  20. When you keep on exploring and trying to understand him/her very well. This is the way for u to get close to him/her.
  21. When you know his/her interest and what he/she likes and dislike.
  22. When every moment with him/her is still fresh in your mind.You like recording everything in your little black box and you can smile alone when u think about it...hehe
  23. The last but not least...is when u think about him/her most of the time...how he's/she's feel...what he's/she's doing...is he/she enjoying himself/herself....u just keep on thinking...thinking...and thinking about him/her.....u have his/her face image inside your mind all the time...u just want to be with him/her....no other man/woman...one and only....hehe...
Well...that's some of the clue to know whether you are in love...hehe...i'm not that expert...but this is some of the thing that i have gone through...hahah..i love to be in love...but now i need to take a break...cause loving someone is a pleasure at one time....and it's also a suffer when u are facing problem with it. But if you are in love, most of the time...u have happy moment and just enjoy the feeling...cause your love one will always be there for you in any condition. Even you are stress up...or down, a magic word or a hug from your love one will calm you. I just miss that moment so much...cause don't have anybody that can calm me down...hehehe...I should find new love now...hahah..new registration for new love application....hehe...

Some update: falling in love is a wonderful feeling but u cannot force yourself to be in love with someone that u don't love...cause i've experienced this too...try to love someone that i actually don't love...i mean i don't have that clue as above...just don't want to be alone i guess...or just want to be with someone and share my feeling but actually i don't really have the deep feeling of him in me...i just notice about it when i broke up, i just don't feel anything much..just miss his sms and calls only i guess....i don't really miss him...but his a nice guy...i've make up my mind and left him...cause i cannot lie to myself forever i tell myself i need to leave him before it's getting worst and let him fall in love with me that deep while i don't feel anything...i don't want my sympathy to be part of our relationship...cause love and sympathy is 2 different feeling that need to be separate...so...u must make up your mind...whether u really love him/her or it just the sympathy to stay with him/her and don't want to hurt his/her feeling by letting him/her go. Only u yourself know how's your feeling....so make a good decision...finding your true love from the eyes of your love one....to your heart...and to your soul....if u have all this combination, don't let him/her go...cause this is the one for u....soulmate searching....my next topic to be blog in...haha...

2 comments:

mrs ajue said...

tambah lagi..

- When you can eat a bigmac in front of him.. and be all gross.. but he thinks that you look cute!

- When he likes to impersonate other people or make jokes just to see you smile and laugh

- When you start to gain weight because you eat too much when you go out together.. you're just having too much fun being with each other

hoho.. berdasarkan pengalaman sendiri hehehehe..

The Street Walk of Life said...

hahaha...yeah that's right...all the sweet thing happen when together with the love one...thank you for sharing your experienced with me...love it...:)